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Kokila Chandarana
B: 1944-12-00
D: 2018-01-15
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Chandarana, Kokila
Niranjanaben Sukhadia
B: 1933-05-11
D: 2018-01-11
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Sukhadia, Niranjanaben
Sumanbhai Patel
B: 1956-06-01
D: 2018-01-11
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Patel, Sumanbhai
James Wilhelm
B: 1932-11-05
D: 2018-01-04
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Wilhelm, James
Dianne Noto
B: 1953-11-17
D: 2018-01-02
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Noto, Dianne
Manubhai Patel
B: 1934-07-27
D: 2017-12-26
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Patel, Manubhai
Azat Hovhannisyan
B: 1960-03-21
D: 2017-12-25
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Hovhannisyan, Azat
Sarala Goyal
B: 1923-12-12
D: 2017-12-22
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Goyal, Sarala
Bikash Panigrahi
B: 1958-05-06
D: 2017-12-12
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Panigrahi, Bikash
Sharon Adney
B: 1957-09-03
D: 2017-12-12
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Adney, Sharon
Vivek Goindi
B: 1979-05-08
D: 2017-12-12
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Goindi, Vivek
Yatin Ghosh
B: 1934-10-12
D: 2017-11-28
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Ghosh, Yatin
Charu Patel
B: 1936-11-06
D: 2017-11-28
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Patel, Charu
Prem Nandiwada
B: 1950-04-03
D: 2017-11-20
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Nandiwada, Prem
Hee Young Ahn
B: 1960-07-10
D: 2017-11-15
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Ahn, Hee Young
Balakrishnan Narayanaswamy
B: 1934-03-10
D: 2017-11-09
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Narayanaswamy, Balakrishnan
Jayant Pandejee
B: 1937-05-29
D: 2017-11-06
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Pandejee, Jayant
Sunil Dhavalikar
B: 1958-07-19
D: 2017-10-22
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Dhavalikar, Sunil
Sharon Perkins
B: 1959-11-14
D: 2017-10-10
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Perkins, Sharon
Glenn Moore, III
B: 1946-10-27
D: 2017-10-01
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Moore, III, Glenn
Lorraine Rouse
B: 1928-03-25
D: 2017-09-27
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Rouse, Lorraine

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The death of a loved one is life's most painful event. People's reactions to death remain one of society's least understood and most "off-limits" topics for discussion. Oftentimes, grievers feel totally alone in dealing with their pain, loneliness, and isolation.

Grief is a natural emotion that follows death of someone dear to you; and to one degree or another, it hurts. It is like an open wound which must heal.

At times, it can seem as if this healing will never happen. But, sometimes the healing process can take much less time than we have been led to believe. Grieving is purely an individual experience.

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The ultimate goal of grief and mourning is to take you beyond your initial reactions to the loss. The therapeutic purpose of grief and mourning is to get you to the place where you can live with the loss in a healthy way. To do this, you have to make some necessary changes in your life, including:

1. Changing your relationship with your loved one—recognizing he or she is now gone and developing new ways of relating to him or her. Take comfort in knowing your relationship will continue - it will just be different.

2. Developing a new sense of yourself to reflect the many changes that occurred when you lost your loved one.

3. Taking on physically and mentally healthy new ways of being in the world without your loved one.

4. Finding new people, objects or pursuits in which to put the emotional investment that you once placed in your relationship with the deceased.

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